So we talk about relationships but we all know that no relationship is all sunshine but two people can share an umbrella and survive the storm together.

We all have our different issues we either one own up to them or we stop and think maybe it’s me that has the problem or maybe it’s the other spouse either way we either weather the storm out together or walk the plank .

Nothing last forever and we know this I can honestly say when you are in a relationship it takes work and sometimes you will wind up being so frustrated because your relationship becomes one-sided so for that you need to take a look at what is going on in the relationship and make up your mind if it is worth saving.

Relationships are like jobs you either work for it or work at it or you give it up and find something better because you only have one life and this is what I am saying life is too short and you may never get back what you did in your relationship but at least you tried to fix it.

I have had to give up a lot in order to gain something from each relationship I have been in and I only have had four that went bad but for the reasons are that maybe I was just too nice and I let the situation get carried away so I am telling you relationships are hard but if you want it to work you need to work at it and work together not against each other.

So for all the people that are out there and they are in a relationship and for some reason it is going bad do yourself a favor try to fix it, do everything you can before you give it up because sometimes there is a chance it might work and you find a solution to fix it and not blow it.

Work for you, work for the spouse or other partner, work for love, happiness, and two people that have to use an umbrella to weather out the storm.

Remember the storm is the biggest thing you need to focus on and for you to focus on the important things in a relationship will help you in the long run.

So be kind and be loving give yourself a chance at your relationship don’t let the storm carry it away.

Go home tonight and tell your other half how you feel and work for love, happiness and make it happen.

Good night and god bless , may you find happiness in your life with the one you are in a relationship and know that you are special and life is going to be alright.